Friday, March 25, 2011

What I think about it.

My only real follower thus far posted thoughts on my topics and I've been trying to post my thoughts. I've run into some technical difficulties so I decided my daily post today will be my thoughts on her thoughts.

1.Red said that she's sick and tired of seeing peoples' dirty underwear.
-First, many people wear their clothes too small, thus exposing their underwear. That needs to stop! All the bellies hanging out in addition to the underwear showing are a MESS! Not a good look. Bellies are big, stomachs are flat. I have a belly but it NEVER hangs out. Real women and men should know their real size.
-Second, and probably most important, we should only see your dirty underwear if we are looking through your hamper. If you are grown and wearing dirty underwear, you should be ashamed! I think the problem is that as a society, especially women, we have no humility and thus no shame. Pride comes before the fall. All the cursing, loud talking, and general lack of respect for others is contributing to our downfall.

2.Red also said that people should stop complaining and go get what they want.
-I agree completely. I think the problem is that we have become too lazy and complacent.  If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change you. You can't keep doing the same thing and expecting different results. That's insanity! I know sometimes it's hard to admit our own faults but sometimes the problem really is YOU! "I'm starting with the man in the mirror. I'm asking him to change his ways. No message could have been any clearer, if you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at YOURSELF and make that CHANGE!"-Michael Jackson, RIP
-Also too many people are ready to listen to the complaints and even feed into it instead of keeping it real. If you know your friend is sloppy, messy, and lazy, don't attend her pity party when her man leaves or cheats. Tell her the truth! You are doing her a disservice if you don't. I'm not saying be rude or nasty, but be honest, tactfully. She may not want to be your friend after that, but do you really want a sloppy, messy, and lazy friend? You should want better for yourself just like her man does. We should be trying to help, support, and up-lift one another. Is she really your friend if you can't be honest with her and if she's not taking care of her own world, how can she help or uplift you?

Think about it!

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2 comments:

  1. I think this is a fantastic blog started by a true boss and someone who knows how to give some great advice. I hope people will continue you to join and that it takes off. The Boss will always keep it 100% real.

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  2. James thanks for following and your comment! I look forward to more input from you and hope you continue to follow and invite friends.

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